- 60/40 Principle: 60/40 principle: for all human beings, their reactions tend to be 60% them, 40% you. Ever talk to someone in a bad mood? Do you really think you had a lot to do with that? Don’t take anything so personally. Also, sometimes, when people ARE into you, it’s because they’re available/in a good mood/ on the prowl, etc.
- Drop ‘hooks.’ Look at approaches as just dropping hooks, seeing if the fish are biting. Look to see if she’s into you. If not, no biggie, you discovered that info, just move on.